Love is one area of life that many or most people have struggled with at one time or another. Finding a soul mate is far from easy. If it was simple, everyone would be with theirs or certain one existed. The truth is, finding a soulmate does not have to be as hard as we make it because we are typically the ones standing in our own way when it comes to finding true love.
People often do things that prevent then from finding their life’s soul mate. These include things like:
- Getting involved with someone out of loneliness instead of love
- Chasing those who refuse to commit
- Carrying the fears and hurts from past relationships into new ones and allowing them to act as barriers to keep them separate from the one they met.
- Get involved with those who have addiction problems
- Get involved with someone who is with someone else
- Refuse to see when there is no future with the other person
- Refuse to be honest with themselves when things are not working
When you feel connected to someone, it can be difficult to let them go. This is true even when you know the person is not good for you. It is part of our human nature. When you meet someone who you know is not a soulmate or who is not your soulmate at the moment, it is important to move on and honor it. Staying with someone who is wrong prevents you from finding the true one. If you do move on it is because it is meant to be and the universe will bring you together when and if it is time. This is why we need faith.
Love is the divine right of every human meaning we can all find a soulmate. Having faith and trust in some divine plan for life is important. It allows you to move on when a particular relationship is not working out and to trust that the universe will guide you to the person you are meant to be with in life. The biggest secret to make sure you meet your soulmate is to not do the things above to prevent you from having love. If you avoid doing the list of things and trust in the divine plan, you will find your soul mate. It sounds simple, but it is difficult when you feel a strong connection to someone, but also realize they are not the one.
If you receive a reading with a potential soul mate and the auras are reds and blues, then you are mixing well. However, if reds and greys are present, then one person cares more than the other. That is typically a bad sign and shows you are not a good match. When one person is red and the other a light blue, then the person with light blue is holding back something for some reason. Aura color can show a great deal about how a person feels, thinks, and believes. This is useful for when you want to get to know someone better.