The idea of loving yourself might sound silly or strange to you but loving yourself means that you care about your own happiness and your overall wellness. Loving yourself means that you can face challenges and that you can keep yourself healthy in your mind and your body.
Self-love means that you know that you have worth and that you know that you are enough.
Here are some ways that you can love yourself more:
Mantras
Take time to be mindful of what you are saying and always use positive self-talk. Say things about how confident you are and how loving you are. Be gentle with yourself.
Find a Hobby
Find something that you love to do, and these activities will increase your self-esteem. Put yourself out there and try to do a new thing each week. Do these things just to have fun and to laugh and smile and to feel good about who you are.
Doing things, you love will help you to have courage and help you to be more positive.
Something You Loved as a Child
Find something to do that you loved to do when you are small. Do something like coloring or playing tennis.
Something You Haven’t Tried
Find something that you would like to do that you haven’t tried before and do it. Go mountain climbing or go on a fast vacation. Doing things that you have never tried before will build up your confidence and help you to trust yourself more.
Play Music
Play music and this can build your self-confidence. Doing this can help you to feel better and help you to embrace your worth.
Use Your Senses
Use all of your senses so that you can slow down and see things for what they are. Taste things, touch things, listen to things and smell things. Let yourself feel the moment. Pay attention to what each of these things make you feel.
Learn Something New
Learning something new can boost your confidence. Find something you can train in or take a class. Go and take a yoga class or an exercise class. You can even go back to school to feel more empowered.
Do Things You Are Good At
Find things that you are good at and do them. If you are good at building, build something. If you are good at art, draw or paint something. Doing something that you are good at will build up your confidence and help you to feel good about yourself.
Write in a Journal
Write things down in a journal such as what you are feeling and good memories. Read these things back to yourself and let them make you feel good.
Accomplished Goals
Think about the goals that you went for and you accomplished in your life. Think about the things that you have done that have changed you and made you feel the best that you felt.
Meditate
Meditate each day to get rid of brain chatter and to help you to be more positive and calmer. This can take away stress and help you to be more confident and less depressed.
Mirror Talk
Look at yourself each morning in the mirror and say positive things to yourself. Talk about how your day is going to be and what you can do to improve your life.
Talk About the Facts
Stay with the facts when you talk about things and do not be negative. Being confident means that you are able to make choices and stick to them.
Confidence
Do something that will make you look and feel good on the outside. Buy a new outfit or get a new hair style. Make yourself look and feel good.
Body Language
Pay attention to how you are talking to other people and make sure you are using good body language. Do not be fake but fake it until you are able to be positive. If you want to look confident, you need to feel it. Do what you can and keep your head up. Make sure you use good posture.
Call Your Friend
Call someone that you love to talk to. You can call more than one person and talk about your day and what you are going through.
If you get a compliment, give one back. Thank them for the compliment and accept it. Learn to see the goodness in your life and that you are worth so much. Have value in your journey.
Treat Yourself Like You Treat Others
Treat yourself like you would your best friend. Be kind to yourself and say nice things to yourself, even when you mess up. If you make a mistake, pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Learn to love yourself.