Another brilliant move has been slanting among my female guests. It could be brought on by the movement in vitality from the solar eclipse and the new moon around the same time, or some other energizing vibrations. Whatever the cause, I’m calling it the “Venus Effect.” It’s an engaging vitality that is making ladies leave their connections that no more serve them, whether they are hitched, living respectively or simply dating. My female guests need to join in something greater, whether it’s a superior relationship or their own particular predeterminations.
Love is Different
Love will always be one of the most desired experiences in life, but love is also changing. Thanks to technology, we can meet new people and develop new relationships with the swipe of a finger or the press of a button. We can connect with people who are hundreds or thousands of miles away; not only can we hear them, but we can see them too!
Venus is the planet of love and is a female vibration. It rules Taurus and Libra—fairness in action and strength and balance. This vibration is making women take a stand for their own needs and individualism. They are declaring, “I want out of this relationship.”
Half of a Whole?
In a romantic relationship, each partner is thought to be half of a whole. But I feel that each person in a relationship is a separate entity, and it takes a great deal of work to maintain one’s individuality while in a relationship. My female callers tell me that their relationships aren’t equal. In many cases they do more than the fair share of the work, and their men have dropped the ball. They’re in a one-sided relationship and they’ve had enough!
The great news is that women aren’t putting up with it! They’d rather go and be free of the responsibility of caring for men who aren’t capable of caring for them in return. A one-sided relationship isn’t worth keeping and they want to get out of their stale situations. If that sounds like you, here are a few tips:
- Be honest with yourself. If you’re not happy, admit it.
- You don’t need to fall on the sword to make others happy. Each of us is responsible for our own happiness.
- Don’t jump into a new relationship right away. Hit the pause button and take a break from love. If you need to, move closer to family for support.
- Gather your thoughts and make a plan for the future. Know what to do differently next time.
- Reconnect with your own identity. You’ve lost yourself, now find yourself again.
The decision to leave isn’t an easy one—even if you are unhappy. If you’re unsure, or would like to try and fix things, I’d be happy to help! I can help you get back on the road to happiness.