You feel that it’s the right time to have a boyfriend. So, what now? Well, there is some advice that can certainly get you started on the right path. However, it will be up to you to carry yourself the rest of the way. Finding love has a psychic/ intuitive element, but you must pay attention to the subtle signs, which let you know when a potential soul mate is in your presence. Your biggest foe will be your own determination, as sometimes you may want a boyfriend so bad you manufacture a feeling to fill an empty place in your heart. However, you will only create a broken heart by attempting to cheat love.
You have to be open to exploring beyond your safe zones. While destiny is a part of this, you can speed things up by giving love plenty of opportunities to find you. In a sense, finding a boyfriend is like advertising. The more guys you get your product (you) in front of, the more interest you will receive. Considering the research, a good boyfriend can be found just about anywhere.
There is no magical Wal-Mart for boyfriends—you must get out there and look for the Blue Light Specials. However, we have not discussed the magnetism that drives guys toward certain girls. In other words, some women have a much easier time getting a boyfriend than others, and these are the reasons why:
- Many men are happy being your friend until they realize how easy it would be to lose you.
Don’t expend much energy on a guy who isn’t expending a lot of energy too. Never stop looking for love until you’ve found that special commitment, and don’t be afraid to make a guy jealous by making yourself scarce when he appears to be taking you for granted. A guy is most comfortable as a “single” bachelor… unless you give him reason to give that up.
- Arm candy to a man is something that has been baked with a lot of attention and care.
Attracting a boyfriend has much to do with your appearance—there is no denying that. While you may think this is about your genetics, I am actually talking about presenting yourself in a way that makes you feel proud to be you. If a woman feels attractive and sexy, over 50 percent of guys will agree (and that’s some pretty good odds).
- Open your eyes, speak from the heart, and never be afraid to be smarter than a guy.
Some women almost seem embarrassed by their intelligence. Guys do like to be the alpha, but even more so, they prefer to be challenged by a woman who makes them strive to become better men. A woman who takes herself seriously will attract the kind of men who would take their relationships seriously.
- Admire with curiosity the things that move his spirit.
You won’t be interested in everything a guy finds interesting. He wouldn’t want you to be. However, all men like to be seen as interesting and feel supported in their efforts, which means taking an interest in the things that drive them. This can get tricky when your guy is doing things that seem immature or a waste of good brain cells, so you may have to pick and choose from his favorite hobbies. If you can’t respect where he decides to spend his time, then he may not be the right boyfriend for you after all.
- Make him work for the privilege of being with you.
This is a reminder never to let a guy disrespect you or push you into being something you’re not, no matter how much you want him to like you. The kind of girlfriends that guys treat poorly are unhappy, and the relationships are short-lived.
- Let a boyfriend fit into your life.
Many of the greatest relationships in life have happened when a woman was ready but unsuspecting. In other words, live your life. Enjoy your hobbies, friends, and family, and when a guy comes along that seems to fit in without too much effort, it may be time to get out your boyfriend checklist and see if he fits the bill.
- Don’t worry about being his “type.”
Women sometimes fear being themselves because they’re afraid to be different from the girls they normally go out with. Don’t be afraid to be different. Don’t be scared to be yourself, even if you are not like any other woman he’s ever known. There is a reason these other women are his exes… Your best success will come when a guy thinks you are great, just as you are.
The point about men being happy as friends until they realize they could lose you is interesting. It highlights the social dynamics at play in evolving relationships.
Indeed, it seems to suggest that sometimes the fear of loss can activate deeper feelings, which is a fascinating aspect of human psychology.
While the article underscores the importance of physical appearance, it rightly shifts focus on feeling attractive and confident. It’s a balanced view.
The recommendation to admire a man’s hobbies selectively while maintaining one’s boundaries is pragmatic. Not every interest needs to be shared, but mutual respect is key.
I think this advice helps in building a relationship where both parties can grow independently yet support each other. Balance is essential.
Yes, mutual respect is fundamental. A strong relationship can thrive even with different individual interests.
The advice here is quite comprehensive, covering emotional readiness and practical steps one must take. The emphasis on being oneself and maintaining dignity is crucial.
I agree, especially with the point about making him work for the privilege. Respect in a relationship is non-negotiable.
This article offers a realistic perspective on finding a boyfriend. The analogy to advertising is apt, although it simplifies the complexities of human relationships.
True, but sometimes simple analogies help in understanding more intricate subjects. It’s a good starting point for those who are new to dating.