Have you ever dated someone you thought for sure was your soulmate and then later found out that they were the worst person you could have ever imagined? Do you feel like the relationship started out perfectly but then got really bad really quickly? This is a sign that you are in a karmic relationship.
You might wonder how this happens to you and why. The thing about karmic relationships is that it isn’t about what happens in the relationship or the relationship ending, but about the karma ending. In order to get out of a karmic relationship, you have to learn the lessons that you were meant to learn, and then once you do that, you can be free from that debt.
Each time you go through a karmic relationship and learn your lesson, you are paying back some of that karmic debt. Have you had to deal with some painful relationships that have caused you suffering? Do you feel you have been mistreated by people you dated and loved? Have they talked badly to you and hurt you more than you can count?
If you handled these things correctly, you started paying back your karmic debt. These things are not always easy to know, and you will not know how much karma you owe, but there is a sign that you can tell that you are almost at the end of your debt.
When karma is paid back, you can be free from bad relationships. When you are ready to get out of a relationship, it will almost be over. The more sincere you are about getting out of the relationship, the faster it will happen. The universe will listen to you and let you pay back your debt.
Ending Karmic Relationships
If you are in a karmic relationship and it is painful for you, this means that it is karma. This can be a family relationship, friendship, or even a partner.
Hurtful Relationships
When you are in a painful relationship, you have to stop the relationship and have enough of it. If you and your partner are always fighting, you must decide you are done with the relationship and move on. Stop allowing them to walk over you and to hurt you over and over again.
Once you say that is enough, you can end the relationship and move forward.
Stop!
When you disagree with how someone is treating you and want to stop it, tell them to stop! As soon as you say that, end the conversation and do not let them pick on you anymore.
You don’t have to explain why you said stop or be defensive. Learn to stand up for yourself without crying or yelling. Know that you are working through something and that you don’t want to be mistreated.
Don’t Treat Me That Way
Sometimes, we allow people to treat us however we want. We think this kind of action is normal, and we don’t stop it.
When you are with someone who is not being fair to you for no reason, you need to tell them they aren’t allowed to treat you that way. You are the one who will decide how you are treated in a relationship.
Demand that they respect you and be kind to you in the relationship. When you put your foot down and set boundaries, you can have power in the relationship and allow the karma to be paid back faster.
The sooner your karmic relationship is over, the sooner you can heal.
Dealing with Conflict
When someone attacks you in your emotions or physical body, it is about who they are and not about who you are. If your boyfriend is having a bad day and then brings it home to you and yells at you for something, it is about them and not about you.
You might not understand why people are hurting you and feel like you have to fix it, but this is not what you need to do.
Tell them to stop venting their anger at you, and when they are done, they can talk to you again. Please do not give your partner the power to let their negativity ruin your life. Things will change once they know that you are in control of your emotions and the situation.
When you let them know that you are not going to let them hurt you, you will be powerful and able to stand up for yourself and what you deserve.
You don’t want to be in a relationship where people disrespect and treat you poorly. If they are hurting you, tell them. If they don’t care, work through it and be ready to move on. Let them know that how they talk to you is wrong and hurtful.
Ending Karma
Ending karma is not easy, and when you find yourself in a toxic relationship, chances are that you are burning off your karma debt.
The relationship might take time, but it can end peacefully if you learn to accept and learn from your lesson. Karma is not about ending the relationship but getting rid of the karma that you owe.
Here are some ways to get rid of karma that you owe fast:
- Live the Best Life
Learn to embrace your life and the things that happen in your life. Deal with hard things that come in your relationships in a positive way.
Stay calm and experience good things together. Karma will let you work it out as long as you are kind and compassionate during it. These experiences will help you learn your lesson and find true love.
Learn to have different experiences with yourself and your partner. Are you happy for them even if they aren’t for you? Do you feel that you can live your life alone?
- Confrontation
Most people hate confrontation, but they let it come to them. You have to tell him how he is hurting you, or the pain will make you negative. This will cause you to be toxic and build up more bad karma.
Learn to confront him positively and let him know he is hurting and embarrassing you. This will help you to heal.
- Meditate
One of the easiest ways to get rid of karma is to meditate. Doing this can clear your mind and help you be more positive.
Meditation is a way to burn out your karma. Once you are silent and look deep into yourself, you will see that you can learn from the things that happen to you, which will help you get rid of the karma.
I found the discussion on setting boundaries and standing up for oneself to be quite practical. Nevertheless, the connection to karmic debt feels somewhat abstract. How do we determine the completion of our karma?
Agreed. The concept of karmic debt is quite subjective. It seems that personal growth and the ability to move on from toxic relationships are key indicators.
That’s a valid point, Cat. I think the article suggests that feeling a sense of freedom and resolution may indicate that one’s karmic debt is nearing its end. However, it does leave room for personal interpretation.
I appreciate the emphasis on self-respect and setting boundaries in relationships. The idea of karmic relationships aligns with some spiritual philosophies, but I wonder how universally applicable this idea is.
The recommendation to use meditation for managing relationship stress is useful. While the karmic aspect is open to interpretation, mindfulness practices can indeed help individuals cope with emotional turmoil more effectively.
The article provides an interesting perspective on relationships and the concept of karmic debt. While the idea of learning lessons through difficult relationships is intriguing, I’m curious about the evidence supporting the notion of karma in this context.
The article’s guidance on confronting issues and not allowing mistreatment in relationships is beneficial. Even if one doesn’t fully subscribe to the idea of karmic debt, these principles of self-care and boundary-setting are universally valuable.